In the outside world if this occurred, people would almost certainly find out, which would be an embarrassing thing to have to put up with! Adult dating personals allow people to post things about themselves, usually personal things and remain anonymous. Screen names are used as a pseudonym, which means complete anonymity. This inevitably allows you to be a completely different person, the person you have always dreamed of being and it is this one point alone that has enticed so many people into using such adult dating services.
So What's Involved? If you are planning on joining one of these services, you can get involved easily and usually for free. Once you have a membership, the next step is to set up your profile of which will be seen by potentially millions of people from all around the world. The one thing that is not mandatory is your personal contact details. That means you don't have to put down your real name if you don't want too. In your membership you will also be able to search for and converse with other members from over the world.
You can also edit your profile as well as some other cool search functions such as finding people in your local area, which is good if you plan on meeting some of the other members in person. There is one thing that people are mistaken by when it comes to these particular sites and it's this. The majority of people that use adult friend finding services are people like you and me and not crazy sex addicts. Actually if you are a crazy sex addict, it's likely that you'll be kicked out faster than you can say "I want some!" Most services keep pretty close eyes on their members to make sure there are no people in there for the wrong reason. Unfortunately the internet as well as creating a lot of good things has also bred a small group of people that have malicious ideas. Just make sure you really get to know the people in their before you decide to arrange a meeting, chances are things will be OK but you can never be certain enough.